The rori raye mantra. 1. FIVE TOOLS TO HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU WANT 1.
THE RORI RAYE MANTRA Trust Your Boundaries Follow Your Feelings Choose Your Words Be SurprisedI trust my boundaries – I trust myself: I know I will not knowingly toss mypearls before swine, throw myself into the path of destruction, hide from thetruth, go along with or tolerate something that is damaging to me. Now I canmove to my feelings.I follow my feelings – I follow my emotions around my body and into myheart because they are my compass in the world.
I love my feelings and knowthat I must go where I am, be where I am, feel what I feel, and go through thefeeling if I want to feel better. Now I can speak.I choose my words – I am committed to clear, direct, feeling basedcommunication. I honor my feelings by expressing them from my heartwithout trying to influence or attack my man. If I choose, Now I can let go ofthe result.I allow every moment to be a surprise – I don’t have to know everyoutcome, I don’t have to manage every situation, I don’t have to make sureeverything goes the way I want, and I absolutely don’t have to know what myman is going to say or do next.Because I know what I will not tolerate, because I can feel what I feel, becauseI’ve stated clearly what I feel and don’t want, I can let go of control.
TRANSLATIONS – HOW TO SPEAK SO HE’LL HEARControl Speak Surrender Speak This column is about him – so it’s his This is about me and so it’s business only – It’s Not my business, My business; And it’s Off Limits It’s about being Vulnerable & Real; It’s the Way to goWhy is he doing that? I feel mad, sad, glad, afraid, scared, angry, happy, disconnected, confused, shaky, uncomfortable, weird, upset, lonely, tired, exhaustedWhat is he doing? I feelWhat is he feeling? I feelWhat are you feeling?
I feelWhat do you mean? I feelI’ll bet I know why he’s depressed I feelOh, he’s just.
I feelOh, men are just like that I feelThere’s so much tension between I feelus.He must be.mad, upset, havingchildhood memories, etc.Why does he always have to do that? I feelYou never listen to me! I feelI need you to do this or that I don’t want to do this, what do you think?What if we (you) did that? Can we I don’t want to go there; do that, see that,(you) please do that? Feel this, feel that, listen to this, be there, be here, stand here, tolerate this, have this, worry about this, think about this, take charge of this, plan this—what do you think?Why didn’t you call me?
NothingWhat’s going on with our relationship? I don’t want that kind of relationship, what do you think?Not noticing when he does something Thank you. I like that tie, I like how younice look, I love this restaurant – I feel so good here, I feel so good with you, that feels so good, etc.I want you to pick me up, open my I’m old-fashioned. I don’t feel comfortabledoor, etc. Meeting men, calling men, planning dates, etc. STOP ROWING THE RELATIONSHIP BOATI use the word Overfunctioning to describe working so hard in a relationship:Giving, leading, stepping in, rescuing and doing stuff that your man issupposed to be doing.Stopping Overfunctioning is the fastest way to get connected to a man.
WhenYou stop leading, you get to experience how it feels to follow: Sometimes itfeels wonderful, sometimes it’s disappointing, and sometimes it’s scary.Are you always feeling drained by your relationships, as though you’re the onealways rowing the relationship boat?Well, I’m going to ask you to stop rowing. To actually put down the oars, sitback in the boat and enjoy the ride.
If your man is at all capable, he’ll pick upthe oars and start rowing all by himself, without you asking him, directing him,pleading with him, or explaining why he should.
Ok, back when i had a horrible break up with my then fiance 3 years ago, i googled all sorts of self help topics about getting over a break up and most of all finding a great man for a life long relationship. Well i came across all sorts of information. I've read the free posts, free advise and free videos of this chick, Rori Raye. I almost bought her materials but deep inside i knew the truth had to be simpler than she partrayed it to be. Her materials and blog followers are so full of dog gone Ok, back when i had a horrible break up with my then fiance 3 years ago, i googled all sorts of self help topics about getting over a break up and most of all finding a great man for a life long relationship. Well i came across all sorts of information.
I've read the free posts, free advise and free videos of this chick, Rori Raye. I almost bought her materials but deep inside i knew the truth had to be simpler than she partrayed it to be. Her materials and blog followers are so full of dog gone drama it is unreal!after reading their posts i would end up thinking 'dudette, i am a woman and can relate to your pain but for crying out loud stop whining already and get a life!' Well i am glad i held up on buying Rori's materials.
I recently came across a wonderful author who wrote a book most online scams use to base their so called 'programs' on. HERE'S THE SCOOP LADIES, I've been married for 2 years now and it is going strong. I must give credit to a book i had heard of many times before yet had never read until recently. MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS. Yes, it is written by a male, but by golly thanks to this book i was able to find a wonderful man and have a DRAMA SIREN FREE relationship. It is straight forward, for those of us who want the details without the useless embelishments. This book Men are from Mars Women are from Venus has been around for a long time yet the information is timeless, clear and direct.
No friggin projection or shady manic-depressive exercise junk. As crazy as it sounds being a woman i am a dramaphobic and want the information given straight to me, something that Rori Raye does not accomplish for me. Her materials actually caused me to feel hopeless because she strings you along so far away from the dog gone simple principles you get lost. She lost me at 'be the siren all men want'.what a trip! Simply put, i am sure Rori Raye read this Men are from Mars Women are from Venus book, she ran with it's principles and threw in her confusing and useless add ons so she didn't come acrross as a plagiarist and to charge women a good penny for her complications and embelishments of the simple truth.
Most online scams use the information from this book, so if you want the truth told like it is and are a drmaphobic like me, buy yourself a copy of Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. I don't get paid to write this review. I just hate it when 'authors' prey on women's insercurities and hardships. LOOK SISTER: the truth is not complicated, it is black and white. If you've read Rori's materials i invite you to read the book i mentioned above (which has been around longer than this Rori chick) and tell me whether i'm right or not.
Still reading, about half way through the book. This book truly is amazing!
The insights, exercises, tips etc. I've seen people compare it to 'Men are from Mars & Women from Venus', but sorry, I think this goes a lot further. Maybe both complement each other, but this is one of a kind as far as I'm concerned!
Especially the bit on feminine & masculine energies and role patterns, there's so little good info WITH examples AND exercises on this and how it pans out in a relationship when b Still reading, about half way through the book. This book truly is amazing! The insights, exercises, tips etc. I've seen people compare it to 'Men are from Mars & Women from Venus', but sorry, I think this goes a lot further.
Maybe both complement each other, but this is one of a kind as far as I'm concerned! Especially the bit on feminine & masculine energies and role patterns, there's so little good info WITH examples AND exercises on this and how it pans out in a relationship when both man & woman are in masculine energy (which happens a lot).
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Rory explains why this causes problems, how you can resolve it to make both happier and the relationship better. No miracles, it's actually all just very logical. But sometimes we just need a little more info and insight and someone to spell it out for us. There's an exercise in it you can do to experience what it's like for a man when a woman claims him, clings on to him. No wonder many men want to run for dear life! It feels horrible! This book is worth every cent it costs!
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I love Rori Raye's books and programs. She not only helps women to empower themselves, but her work also helps people find (and stay in) love.
I love that her relationship books are about authenticity and not strategies about how people can 'game' each-other. I absolutely love her communication tools and the way they help people relate to one another in healthy and connected ways. I highly recommend this book as well as any of her programs. I can honestly say her programs changed my Empowering! I love Rori Raye's books and programs. She not only helps women to empower themselves, but her work also helps people find (and stay in) love.
I love that her relationship books are about authenticity and not strategies about how people can 'game' each-other. I absolutely love her communication tools and the way they help people relate to one another in healthy and connected ways. I highly recommend this book as well as any of her programs. I can honestly say her programs changed my life. She teaches so much more than just relationship.
Her teachings touch on spirituality, presence and consciousness. Rori is adorable, amazing, kind-hearted, insightful, easy to understand, and truly a blessing. I remember when I read it 6 years ago, when I first began my transformation.
It didn't really make sense. I was able to benefit from a few tips (visualization, listening, etc.), but I needed more practical tips that I found in other books like Women are from Venus. And Surrendered wife by Laura Doyle. I read it again a week ago, after all these years of work that I have done on myself, and it all made sense. This is more of a holistic approach. There won't be a lot of practical advice that can I remember when I read it 6 years ago, when I first began my transformation.
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It didn't really make sense. I was able to benefit from a few tips (visualization, listening, etc.), but I needed more practical tips that I found in other books like Women are from Venus. And Surrendered wife by Laura Doyle.
I read it again a week ago, after all these years of work that I have done on myself, and it all made sense. This is more of a holistic approach. There won't be a lot of practical advice that can be used daily, but once it makes total sense and you figure out how important it is first to care about yourself and learn to express yourself without trying to control, then you can know how to use it.
I agree though that it is better to combine with other books. I love Rori's work, however, coming from a place where I had very low self esteem and always found myself in very very toxic relationships, her work allowed me to blossom and to attract better relationships every time.